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What You NEED To Know About Dieting & Exercise

Women's health expert Dr. Stephanie Estima reveals the fitness myths keeping you weak and why building strength is the new goal.

Dr. Stephanie Estima identifies six fitness myths that hinder women's progress, emphasizing that 'skinny' is often an insufficient health goal and that women should focus on building five specific muscle groups for optimal physiology.

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95 minJun 29, 2026The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

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Debunking Fitness Myths

Dr. Estima reveals six common fitness myths that keep women weak, challenging conventional wisdom about dieting and exercise.

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Rethinking 'Skinny'

The episode argues that being skinny is the wrong goal for health, advocating instead for building strength, shape, and a trustworthy body.

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Targeted Muscle Building

Women are encouraged to build five specific muscle groups to improve overall health and function, moving beyond aesthetic-focused training.

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Health Archetypes

Dr. Estima outlines four female health archetypes—Overwhelmed Olivia, Skinny Fat Sophie, Exorcist Emily, and Dialled-In Diana—to help women identify their specific health challenges.

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Hormonal Health and Fasting

The guide explains how prolonged fasting can quietly damage women's hormones and offers alternatives to traditional keto or fasting protocols.

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About the Expert

Dr. Stephanie Estima's Background

Dr. Stephanie Estima is a Doctor of Chiropractic and women's health expert with over 20 years of clinical practice specializing in female physiology, hormones, and metabolism. She is the author of 'The Betty Body' and the upcoming book 'Nothing to Lose: A Clinicians Guide to What Comes After Skinny.'

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Why is 'skinny' considered the wrong goal for women's health?

The episode suggests that focusing solely on being skinny overlooks strength, shape, and metabolic health, which are more critical for long-term well-being.

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What are the four female health archetypes described?

The archetypes are Overwhelmed Olivia, Skinny Fat Sophie, Exorcist Emily, and Dialled-In Diana, each representing different approaches to health and fitness.

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How does fasting affect women's hormones?

Dr. Estima explains that certain fasting durations can quietly damage women's hormones, suggesting that women may need different nutritional timing than men.

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Will lifting weights make women bulky?

The episode addresses the myth that lifting weights leads to bulkiness, explaining what actually changes the body and why strength training is beneficial.

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Which supplements are recommended for women?

Dr. Estima discusses which supplements are actually worth taking, including creatine and collagen, and their specific benefits for women's health.

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Stephanie Estima

Doctor of Chiropractic and Women's Health Expert

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This guide is based on the episode 'Women’s Fitness Expert: What You NEED To Know About Dieting & Exercise' from The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett, featuring Dr. Stephanie Estima.

  1. Publisher show notes

    Women's Health Expert Dr Stephanie Estima reveals the 6 fitness myths keeping you weak, why skinny is the wrong goal, and the 5 muscle groups every woman should be building!

  2. Publisher show notes

    Stephanie Estima is a Doctor of Chiropractic and women's health expert with over 20 years of clinical practice specialising in female physiology, hormones, and metabolism.

  3. Publisher show notes

    She hosts the podcast Better With Dr Stephanie and is the author of ‘The Betty Body’ and the upcoming book, ‘Nothing to Lose: A Clinicians Guide to What Comes After Skinny: Building Strength, Shape, and a Body You Can Trust.’

  4. Publisher show notes

    She explains: ◼ The 4 types of women sabotaging their own health, and which one is you ◼ Why lifting weights won't make you bulky, and what actually changes your body ◼ How long fasts are quietly damaging your hormones and what to do instead ◼ Why the way you squat might be wrong for your anatomy ◼ The supplements every woman should take and what they actually do for you

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    • 00:00:00 Intro • 00:02:30 Why Women Are Still Given Bad Health Advice • 00:04:26 Is Being Skinny Actually Healthy? • 00:05:41 How Stephanie's Experience Changed Her Approach • 00:06:42 Stephanie's Personal Battle With Body Image • 00:09:19 What You'll Take Away From This Conversation • 00:10:21 The 4 Female Health Archetypes Explained • 00:10:51 Are You Overwhelmed Olivia? • 00:12:32 Are You Skinny Fat Sophie? • 00:13:56 How To Reduce Belly Fat Effectively • 00:16:08 Are You Exorcist Emily? • 00:17:31 Are You Dialled-In Diana? • 00:19:47 Are Carbs Really Bad?

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    And Is Keto Worth It? • 00:22:05 Signs Your Thyroid May Not Be Working Properly • 00:24:11 Will Lifting Weights Make You Bulky? • 00:26:11 Is Fasting Safe For Women? • 00:28:38 What If You're Scared To Lift Heavy Weights? • 00:30:02 Does Post-Workout Meal Timing Really Matter? • 00:30:45 Should You Eat Before A Workout? • 00:31:30 Can Ketones Improve Your Workout? • 00:32:32 Which Muscles Should Women Prioritise? • 00:35:26 How To Train For An Hourglass Figure • 00:37:14 The Key Differences Between Male And Female Anatomy • 00:41:37 Why Women Should Squat Differently Than Men • 00:44:22 How Strength Training Can Help Prevent Falls • 00:46:23 Ads • 00:48:23 Which Supplements Are Actually Worth Taking? • 00:51:29 Should Women Take Creatine? • 00:52:07 A Creatine Hack For Perimenopause • 00:53:12 Does Collagen Actually Work? • 00:55:44 Are Protein Shakes Worth It? • 00:55:58 Where Cardio Fits Into A Strength Plan • 00:56:47 Are Cortisol Spikes Really A Problem? • 00:58:22 Is Cardio Helpful For Women With PCOS? • 01:00:01 Don't Stop Doing These Exercises As You Age • 01:00:19 Why Sprinting Is So Good For Women • 01:03:57 Is Running Bad For Your Knees? • 01:04:47 Why Jump Training Matters • 01:05:05 The Benefits Of Isometric Holds • 01:06:20 Why Deceleration Is Essential For Mobility • 01:07:19 The Most Underrated No-Equipment Exercise • 01:12:16 The Best Bodyweight Exercises To Add To Your Routine • 01:12:44 Ads • 01:14:52 The Biggest Fitness Challenges Mothers Face • 01:15:33 What Every Woman Should Know About The Pelvic Floor • 01:18:51 What Women Aren't Saying Out Loud About Sex • 01:21:03 GLP-1s And HRT: What Women Should Know • 01:22:23 The Recovery Habits Women Should Prioritise • 01:23:45 The Missing Piece Of Fitness Most Women Overlook • 01:25:14 Is Pilates Alone Enough? • 01:26:51 Stephanie's Skincare Routine • 01:27:24 Nearly 50 And Feeling Better Than Ever • 01:28:33 Do You Believe In God? • 01:29:06 What Does A Successful Life Look Like? • 01:30:18 Where To Find Stephanie

  8. Publisher show notes

    Follow Dr Stephanie: YouTube - https://link.thediaryofaceo.com/rYfoNE Podcast - https://link.thediaryofaceo.com/6jpMJFM Newsletter - https://link.thediaryofaceo.com/8RH73AS Instagram - https://link.thediaryofaceo.com/AEFoO6V

  9. Publisher show notes

    You can find out more about ‘Get LIFT: The training program for women in midlife’, here: https://link.thediaryofaceo.com/fCH9zk

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    You can pre-order Stephanie’s book, ‘Nothing to Lose: A Clinicians Guide to What Comes After Skinny: Building Strength, Shape, and a Body You Can Trust’, here: https://link.thediaryofaceo.com/Bsldjir

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