Financial Collapse During Divorce
Laura Clery experienced significant financial strain during her divorce, including paying two mortgages and having her water shut off due to her ex-husband's relapse and addiction.
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Laura Clery on the Financial Cost of Infidelity, Addiction, and Divorce
Comedian Laura Clery shares how her marriage and finances collapsed simultaneously, and how she rebuilt her life and wealth.
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Costly Legal Decisions
Choosing mediation over hiring a lawyer proved costly for Clery, who later struggled to afford a retainer and faced post-separation abuse including hacked social media accounts.
3Importance of Financial Independence
Clery emphasizes the need for women to maintain separate bank accounts, influenced by her mother's lack of financial independence and her own experience of rebuilding.
4Rebuilding After Loss
After losing years of content and her livelihood through hacked accounts, Clery focused on rebuilding her financial stability and personal brand.
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Laura Clery's Media Success
Before her divorce, Laura Clery built a media empire with 26 million followers, establishing a strong financial foundation that was later challenged by personal crises.
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How did Laura Clery's ex-husband's addiction impact their finances?
His relapse and addiction led to financial wreckage, including Clery paying two mortgages and facing unexpected expenses like a water shutoff.
2What legal mistake did Laura Clery make during her divorce?
She chose mediation over hiring a lawyer, which proved costly when she later needed legal representation but couldn't afford the retainer.
3Why does Laura Clery recommend women keep separate bank accounts?
Her mother's lack of financial independence in a difficult marriage influenced Clery's belief that separate accounts are crucial for women's financial security.
4What happened to Laura Clery's digital assets during her divorce?
Her ex-husband hacked her YouTube and Facebook accounts, deleting years of content and impacting her livelihood.
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Laura Clery
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All investing involves the risk of loss, including loss of principal. This podcast is for informational purposes only and does not constitute financial, investment, or legal advice. Always do your own research and consult a licensed financial advisor before making any financial decisions or investments.
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Comedian and creator Laura Clery built a media empire of 26 million followers, and then watched her marriage and her bank account collapse at the same time.
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Laura opens up about the financial wreckage of her divorce: how her ex-husband's relapse and addiction affected their financial lives, how she ended up paying two mortgages at once without fully understanding why, and the surreal moment she realized her water had been shut off.
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She walks Nicole through the costly mistake of choosing mediation over hiring a lawyer, why she couldn't afford the retainer when she finally needed one, and the moment her ex hacked her YouTube and Facebook accounts, deleting years of content and her entire livelihood in the process.
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Nicole and Laura also get into the bigger financial lessons: why Laura now insists every woman keep her own separate bank account, how watching her mother stay in a difficult marriage without financial independence shaped her own choices, and how she rebuilt. But first, Laura shares about the freak accident that almost killed her.
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If you or someone you know is struggling with the same issues Laura speaks of today, here are resources for addiction and domestic abuse
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Here's what Nicole covers with Laura:
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00:00 Are You Ready for Some Money Rehab?
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02:03 The Freak Refrigerator Accident
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12:24 The Inside Job Conspiracy
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14:35 Writing What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Hotter
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16:12 Early Money Dynamics With Her Ex
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18:31 Booking TV Commercials
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21:52 Becoming Facebook's Biggest Comedy Star
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23:45 Who Really Controlled the Money
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25:01 The First Relapse and Years in Recovery
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27:00 Catching the Infidelity
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29:53 When It All Went Public
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32:00 "You're Not a Victim, You're a Volunteer"
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37:08 No Prenup and Two Mortgages
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39:53 The Day Her Water Got Shut Off
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42:27 Choosing Mediation Over a Lawyer
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47:00 The Hack51:14 Post-Separation Abuse
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54:47 Why She'll Never Live With a Man Again
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58:37 Her Parents' Marriage and the Cost of Staying
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1:01:01 Why Every Woman Needs Her Own Bank Account
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1:01:51 "Mommy Has Money Again"
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1:02:39 Money Fixes Money Problems, Not Everything Else
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1:05:54 Reframing the Mental Block
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1:09:41 Laura Clery's Tip You Can Take Straight to the Bank
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All investing involves the risk of loss, including loss of principal. This podcast is for informational purposes only and does not constitute financial, investment, or legal advice. Always do your own research and consult a licensed financial advisor before making any financial decisions or investments.
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